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The girl who gave us Wendy

A little girl in Victorian London has a special name for her father's friend, the writer J. M. Barrie. He gave it to one of the most famous characters in children's books.

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The Real Wendy

A little girl's word for 'friend' became Peter Pan's Wendy.

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What's there
A child's grave behind a poet's monument
Legend from
1894
Tone
Curious
Tombs & graves

Before you go

The grave and Henley monument are in the churchyard of St John the Baptist, open to visit. Please be respectful; it is a child's grave.

  • Henley grave, St John the Baptist churchyard, Cockayne Hatley
  • Near Village road from Potton
  • The pin marks the spot.

In Cockayne Hatley churchyard lies a little girl whose nickname for J. M. Barrie gave Peter Pan its Wendy.

In the churchyard at Cockayne Hatley lies Margaret Henley, the only child of the poet W. E. Henley, who died in 1894 aged five. She was devoted to her father's friend, the writer J. M. Barrie, and in her childish way she called him her fwendy. Barrie never forgot her, and the word became Wendy, the name he gave Wendy Darling in Peter Pan, which made it one of the best-known girls' names in the world. Her parents' ashes were later placed in her grave, beneath a listed monument to the poet, with her own small memorial set into the back of it.

Sources

  1. Wikipedia: Margaret Henley
  2. British Listed Buildings: Grave monument to W. E. Henley, Cockayne Hatley
  3. Wikipedia: Cockayne Hatley